Monday, October 9th, 2017

It was hard to keep up with updates this past weekend. There was a series of downturns that have led us to finally realize Cliff's battle is definitely coming to an end. Even with visits from his best friend and his sister, he has not been able to respond. Today I was asked several times, during the rare early morning visit from the Hospice nurses, if there would be someone with me today. They know that Cliff's fight is in the final stages.
We have all been able to shower him with love during this time and keep him comfortable.
Again, we thank you for continued thoughts, prayers and support during this most difficult time for the family.

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